Author: NBibens

You’ve likely heard that real estate is about location, location, location. But a location’s value can change. A secluded plot becomes a busy subdivision. A new area becomes outdated. And, over time, some good neighborhoods become bad neighborhoods. In housing terms, we may be able to work to try and get into a better situation. But I have some unfortunate news—we all live in a bad neighborhood.

You see, we live in a fallen world. Everyone of us is surrounded by sinners. And we can’t pack up, sell, and move. So what can we do? We can love our neighbors. We can shine the light of Christ. We can realize that we, too, are sinners and thus lovingly extend grace to others as we have received grace. We’re all in the same fallen neighborhood. So what will we do to share the light of Christ and make the neighborhood a better place?

Leviticus 16 describes the detailed activities of the Day of Atonement. In verse 17, the Bible says this about Aaron’s activity that day: “No one may be in the tent of meeting from the time he enters to make atonement in the Holy Place until he comes out and has made atonement for himself and for his house and for all the assembly of Israel.”

We are not Levitical priests, but consider the work Aaron did. First, he made atonement for himself. Then, for his family. Then, for the nation. Today, our first job is to ensure we are faithfully serving the Lord. But we shouldn’t be content just to take care of our own soul. We should seek to help others serve the Lord. The best place to start is with our family. From there, we can also seek to help friends, and we can help encourage and build up the church.

King David wasn’t allowed to build the Temple, but he was allowed to help prepare for its construction. David planned and worked so that when his son Solomon became King, he would have a head start on building the Lord’s temple. But for all of David’s preparation, it would still require Solomon’s work.

In 1 Chronicles 22:14, David told his son, “With great pains I have provided for the house of the Lord 100,000 talents of gold, a million talents of silver, and bronze and iron beyond weighing, for there is so much of it; timber and stone, too, I have provided. To these you must add.” Those final words are important: “To these you must add.”

As parents, we should do everything possible to equip our children to follow the Lord. But ultimately, it must be their choice to do so. Also, we cannot simply ride the coattails of our parents’ faith. We must add to their faith and do our part to honor and serve God.

How do you want to be loved? Would you prefer your closest loved ones and friends to love you in an ordinary way? Or would you prefer extraordinary love? Surely, we would like something beyond the humdrum and ordinary in our friendships, relationships, and love. Or would we? Extraordinary love is challenging to give, but it’s also challenging to receive.

In 2 Corinthians 2:4, the Apostle Paul explains the purpose of his prior letter, which was filled with rebuke. He says, “That letter I sent you came out of great distress and anxiety; how many tears I shed as I wrote it! Not because I wanted to cause you pain; rather I wanted you to know the love, the more than ordinary love, that I have for you.”[1] Paul’s love wasn’t content with overlooking sin to maintain peace. He loved enough to rebuke. Do we love so fervently? Do we love one another enough to rebuke and be rebuked? Is our love more than ordinary?

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In John 9, Jesus encountered a man who had been blind from birth. The Lord spit on the ground, made a bit of mud, placed the muddy spit on the man’s eyes, and told him to go wash in the pool of Siloam. Why this process? Why the pool of Siloam and not another? We’re not told. But later, when the man recounted the story to his neighbors, he said, “The man called Jesus made mud and anointed my eyes and said to me ‘Go to Siloam and wash.’ So I went and washed and received my sight.” Jesus’ instructions were probably as baffling to the blind man as they are to us, but he faithfully obeyed Jesus and was greatly blessed!

We would do well to develop a similar attitude. We may not always understand why the Lord commands what He does. But we also don’t have to. Like the blind man, when Jesus says, “Go,” we go! Faithful, trusting obedience is the path to healing and salvation.

Sometimes, it’s nice to have a little time to ourselves. Especially if we have a job that puts us around other people, we may need time now and then to retreat and enjoy some quiet and contemplative solitude. Solitude, however, is something we should seek wisely and purposefully. See, it is possible to seek solitude for the wrong reasons.

Proverbs 18:1 says, “Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.” Sometimes, we need a respite. Sometimes, we might be more introverted than extroverted and thus enjoy solitude. But it is also possible that we desire isolation out of selfishness. Perhaps we don’t want to be accountable; maybe we won’t work to get along with others, or we might not love others as we should. But God created us to live in community—to help and encourage one another. When we neglect community and instead pursue isolation, we may be walking a dangerous path.