How do you want to be loved? Would you prefer your closest loved ones and friends to love you in an ordinary way? Or would you prefer extraordinary love? Surely, we would like something beyond the humdrum and ordinary in our friendships, relationships, and love. Or would we? Extraordinary love is challenging to give, but it’s also challenging to receive.
In 2 Corinthians 2:4, the Apostle Paul explains the purpose of his prior letter, which was filled with rebuke. He says, “That letter I sent you came out of great distress and anxiety; how many tears I shed as I wrote it! Not because I wanted to cause you pain; rather I wanted you to know the love, the more than ordinary love, that I have for you.”[1] Paul’s love wasn’t content with overlooking sin to maintain peace. He loved enough to rebuke. Do we love so fervently? Do we love one another enough to rebuke and be rebuked? Is our love more than ordinary?
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